is the greatest give we can ever hope 2 give or receive. Love is the 1 thing that can overcome so many of the difficult times that we are faced with in life. Love is so powerful it can turn frowns into smile. It can help mend the most broken heart. It can even turn all the ugliness in the world into the most beautiful potrait we could ever have the pleasure 2 behold.
Such a monumental task of coz,it could be. But only if we try 2 do it alone. Instead,if each of us,in our own small way contributed just a little - together, the task can become the reality that we are reaching for.
As potent as what Love can be, it can only work its magic if we choose to allow it to. For that 2 come 2 pass we must let go of the emotions that can get in love's way. How is that u may wonder?
Consider the thought that...
ANGER - It's normal, but holding on to it indefinitely isnt really necassary. Let it go.. Forgiveness is so much better than holding on to a grudge.Not only will the person you're angry at be happier but so will u.
HARSHNESS - Harsh words just takes as much effort and energy as kind ones do. Why not consider ur choice of words before u speak them and choose gentler ones 2 get ur points across.
IMPATIENCE - Aren't we all guilty of this one at one time or another. Keep reminding urself of the old saying - ''Patience is a Virtue'' - Who wouldn't want to be a liitle bit more virtous?
ENVY - We all know the saying here - ''The grass is not always greener on the other side''. Take that 2 heart and concertrate on ''fertilizing'' & ''watering'' ur own 2 get it just as ''green'' as ur neighbour's ''lawn''. You may wind being envied instead.
MISTAKES - We all make them! So when someone else does, 4give them as u hope others would do 4 u. Allow them 2 be ''only human'' and consider the fact that they didn't mean any harm by it. Did u, when u made one?
REVENGE - Someone always get hurt by this one - and not always the one u expect 2... Why take that risk?
EXPECTATIONS - Set them low enough that they are achievable - not so high that fail 2 reach them. No one wants to feel like a failure. Neither u or the other person. If u dun expect too much u wont be dissapointed.
PERFECTION - We weren't born perfect, its not something that can be learned, so why not accept the fact that it doesn'e exist. So many of us would breathe easier if this concept would just fade away. I would, wouldn't u?
Instead any of the above, consider this options...
Take the time 2 know each other's heart - when u do u will be more understanding and less apt to misunderstand each other's intentions, which probably never meant 2 hurt or upset u 2 begin with.
Smile more often, it may cause a few wrinkles, at the very least, but so does frowning. You choose what kind u rather have. And as u ponder that choice, keep in mind that can both be contagious. Wouldn't u rather be gretted by smiles rather than frowns?
Love causes less stress, less headache, less misundersatndings, less of just abt everything negative. Love does reap rewards - happiness, health, joy, peace and so much more that's positive. Isn't that we want most 4 this world of ours? Isn't this a much prettier picture? Remember the potrait? It's not impossible if we can all help to paint? We can atleast try ryte? Think abt it.....